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SOS states that “Love is as strong as death”, the statement seems outlandish, but reality suggest otherwise. As it turns out the saying is not far-fetched at all. I have witnessed a lot of women accommodate dysfunction adult males, I have also asked women who complained about this about why they can’t just end it and each time they replied ” It is not as easy as you think”. At that point, I am reminded how growing up, ladies constantly were able to turn down geeks and nerds at a drop of a hat, but now they are telling me otherwise. Definitely there is more to it than they are ready to admit.

Observing mammalian pair bonding, and more so primates, it can be deduced that availability and options is what controls the mating process. Males generally compete for the females’ attention, however with humans it is a bit tricky. As both male and female attain sexual maturity, females tend to have more options available to them: in that males way older than they are , are willing to mate with them (sugar daddy) and are bale to turn down offers, the boys on the other-hand don’t have these options till they are 25 and up, as they are now able to provide.

In their late 20s to 30s women who are yet to secure a male protector/comforter will appear to be shit out of luck, and as such will now be willing to settle for any male that comes their way, not out of love but for the lack of option and availability. Five years prior to that time, she would have no second thoughts denying the men she will now be tolerating. This is because most women in their late 20s and 30s forfeit their sexual attractiveness, most don’t take care of themselves, so they lose their beauty quicker and thus not being able to compete with the much younger women fighting for the attention of the available alpha male: that man that every woman wants to be with and sometimes will be willing to be a inamorata.

Mating within the mammalian class attest to natural hierarchy. Primates especially being the order whose alpha male keeps a harem of females, makes it a tedious task for sexually maturing juvenile males to get sexual mate. The quest for a mate might drive the juvenile to mate with one of the females in the harem, consequently incurring punitive actions: banishment or death. This would be the equivalent of committing adultery which in ancient times was punishable by death. Humans are just as any animals governed by our instincts, only that we excel at privatizing our urges unlike beasts.

More women are living in their 40s and 50s alone without a male. It is a biological imperative for both sexes to get along. Humans have managed to undermine biology via our political laws, and inevitably as a society, this generation is paying the dues. A woman abhorring a man old enough to fend for himself but refusing to try. He is an opportunist preying on the system. I walked into a house to sell a product and the whole time the lady paying was doing her best to negotiate with me, all what her “Man” could contribute was yell while watching TV, he was hardly dressed too, suggesting he could be jobless, leaving the 40 year old lady to bear the financial burden of the home improvement expenses. In other homes I have frequented, the man’s presence is always felt and while he may not be actively involved in the sale’s process, his lady would consult him for advice so as not to feel intimidated by another man.

Sexual attraction should not be conflated with love, day and night might make a “Day” but they are both distinct parts of the day. It is natural for a woman to seek a man who finds her sexually attractive, this ties into sexual satisfaction and ultimately fertilization. However a lot of men who will find a lady attractive are not able to love her. Sexual attraction is a desire, love is accepting the responsibility that follows the desire. Unfortunately love is not a requirement for fertilization to occur, all it takes to make a child is pure lust, being responsible for the mother and child is proof of love.

Sex is a drug and the one whom we want it with , the dealer. Choosing the one that will lace it with love is like finding the dealer that has got a marvelous customer service, stay with that one, there is not a lot of those types out there, accountability is rare these days, imagine being able to knock up a woman and walk away, it is common now, nothing there. Essentially in any relationship, both partners are volunteers, none of them are victims, fact is, no party should feel like a parent in a relationship. Being girlfriend or boyfriend does not come with added duties of mom/dad, so don’t perform those roles. The key is to cut a relationship off , as soon as you feel bound to stay out of pity.

In any case that you are willing to put up with the abuse until you find a better replacement: a genital that cares; just think of a dope-fiend who would put up with abuse to get a fix.